Why I Gently โ€œPeer Pressureโ€ Moms to Get in the Photo | “The Magic of Now”

Thereโ€™s something sacred about those first few days after a baby is born.

The wrinkly toes.
The flaky skin.
The way their entire body fits into the crook of your arm.

This session was originally meant to be a Fresh 48, the kind where I meet you at the hospital and document your baby within the first 48 hours of life.

But instead?

We waited.

And it was absolutely the right decision.

Eliana initially reached out wanting to document her baby girl as soon as she arrived. But as the days unfolded, they decided to give themselves more time.
Sometimes waiting gives you more time settle into a new rhythm, physically recover, and just get more sleep! lol

When I arrived at their home in Queens, NY, baby Emilia was bright-eyed, alert, and still tiny, so perfect.

โ€œIโ€™m Not a Camera Personโ€

Now letโ€™s talk about mom for a second.

Eliana told me from the beginning:
โ€œI just want photos of the baby. Iโ€™m not a camera person.โ€

She even shared that when she got engaged, her fiancรฉ hired a photographer, and she was quickly over posing.

And I told her, very gentlyโ€ฆ

โ€œIโ€™m going to peer pressure you in the nicest way possible.โ€

Because hereโ€™s the truth:

The fresh baby smell fades.
The tiny toes turn into little feet that one day smell like cheese.
The newborn scrunch disappears.
The way they fit perfectly on your chest changes almost overnight.

This is their first baby. It only happens once.

And I always tell my moms who don’t want to get in front of the camera:
If you never want to look at the photos again, you donโ€™t have to.
But at least theyโ€™ll exist.

She trusted me, and it was worth it.
By the end of the session, Eliana was relaxed. She laughed, she held her baby without worrying about angles. And when she saw the images, she thanked me over and over. She even left the sweetest review, the kind that makes you want to hug your laptop.

I will always encourage moms to get in the frame. Because one day, your baby will look for you in the photos. And they should find you, holding them, loving them, existing in their story.


The best part?
Hearing how she felt after seeing the images.


If youโ€™re in New York or Connecticut and thinking about documenting your growing family, whether itโ€™s a Fresh 48, a two-month-old, or a toddler who wonโ€™t sit still, I promise weโ€™ll do it in a way that feels easy, natural, and true to you.

You donโ€™t have to be a โ€œcamera person.โ€

You just have to be present.

And Iโ€™ll take care of the rest.

Gemma’s First Birthday Doljabi- A Celebration of Culture and Connection

Doljabi, korean first birthday for baby Gemma, where she chooses her future, she chooses a stethoscope for physican. Mom holds her in her traditional korean dress.

Ever wondered what tradition, adorable baby giggles, and a dash of destiny look like? Let me take you behind the scenes of Gemma’s first birthday doljabi. It was a vibrant celebration rooted in Korean culture and bursting with love.
Spoiler alert: It involves tiny hands choosing their future career path, squishy baby cheeks, and some of the best food Iโ€™ve ever tasted.

In Korean culture, a doljabi is more than just a birthdayโ€”itโ€™s a cherished tradition that celebrates a babyโ€™s milestone first year while offering a peek into their future. During this event, various symbolic items are placed before the birthday child. The baby then picks one, and each item hints at their potential path in life: a gavel for a future judge, a paintbrush for an artist, a microphone for a musician, a stethoscope for a doctor, and even thread for longevity. Watching little Gemma reach out with her tiny fingers was the cutestโ€”and possibly most suspensefulโ€”moment of the day, especially since there was a raffle to make it extra fun. And guess what? Little Miss Gemmaโ€”with her squishable cheeks and gummy smileโ€”reached straight for the stethoscope. Future doctor in the making? Weโ€™ll have to wait and see, but the room erupted in cheers and laughter when she made her pick.


Stephanie and Robert hosted Gemmaโ€™s doljabi at The East Norwalk Association Library. The venue was intimate yet lively, filled with family, friends, and the warmth of celebration. Gemma, dressed in a stunning traditional Hanbok, looked like a little princess. Her parents, also dressed in Hanboks, radiated grace and pride as they shared this special day with their loved ones.

Gemma’s at the perfect age where everything is fascinating, and is full of personality. She lit up every time I sang “Wheels on the Bus” to catch her attention.

If youโ€™re planning a special eventโ€”whether itโ€™s a doljabi, a birthday, or just a fun family gatheringโ€”Iโ€™d love to be there to document it. Iโ€™m based in Fairfield County, Connecticut, and I also serve the New York Metro Area. Letโ€™s make sure your memories arenโ€™t just lived but beautifully preserved forever.

Indoor VS Outdoor Photography: What’s Best For Your Family?

two preschool toddler girls playing princesses while wearing crowns and Princes dresses at home in a playroom covered with toys, stuffede animals like paw patrol charactersm. marshall, skye, and chase pup, with a play tent in the background. Girls are laughing and running around in a circle.

As a mom and a family photographer, I get it. The idea of planning a family photoshoot can feel as daunting as getting your toddler to eat vegetables willingly (why are they so suspicious of broccoli, anyway?). One of the biggest decisions youโ€™ll face is whether to go for indoor or outdoor photography. Both have their charm, but the right choice depends on your familyโ€™s vibe, your goals for the session, and, letโ€™s be honest, how much chaos youโ€™re willing to wrangle that day.

Letโ€™s dive into the pros and cons of each so you can make the best decision for your crew. (Spoiler alert: Either way, youโ€™re in good hands.)


Indoor Photography: Cozy, Controlled, and Climate-Proof

maternity photo of a woman who is expecting sitting on the side of her couch, while her dog also poses for thecamera. the background is dark and modern with a stylish, lamp, pillow and burnt orange throw for a stylish look.

The Pros:
Indoor photography is like a warm hug on a rainy day. Itโ€™s comfortable, intimate, and perfect for those who donโ€™t want to leave the house (introverts, I see you). Itโ€™s also ideal for families with young kids who might get overstimulated outdoors or during colder months when the idea of bundling everyone up sounds less than appealing.-

  • Weather? Whatโ€™s that? Rain, snow, or a heatwave? Doesnโ€™t matter. Your indoor session will go off without a hitch. No sweaty foreheads or wind-blown hair to worry about.
  • Personalized vibes: Want to showcase your familyโ€™s personality? Indoor shoots allow you to use your home as the backdrop, making the photos feel extra meaningful. Bonus: If your toddler refuses to part with their favorite blanket or stuffed llama, it can be part of the story.
  • Controlled environment: Indoor sessions keep distractions to a minimum. No squirrels stealing the show or curious onlookers peeking in on your moment.
3 girls in a photo, one preschoiol toddler lays in bed drinking her chocoloate milk, while the older girl, a cousion or big sister, feeds the youngest baby her milk. all girls are in pajamas, and are in a girly bedroom with a pink purple sky colored bed sheets.

The Cons:
While indoor photography is amazing, it does come with a few limitations.

  • Space matters: If your home or indoor location is a little tight, it could limit the variety of shots. But donโ€™t worryโ€”Iโ€™m a pro at working with whatโ€™s available. (Seriously, Iโ€™ve turned the tiniest corners into magazine-worthy backdrops.)
  • Lighting challenges: Natural light indoors can be tricky, but thatโ€™s why I bring my trusty gear. My job is to make you and your family look amazing, no matter the lighting situation.

Outdoor Photography: Natural, Vibrant, and Freeing

newly wed couple in Manhattan, New York, sitting by bethesda fountain in central park, kissing, while the mom is expecting holding her belly in a baby blue dress.

The Pros:
Outdoor photography is like a breath of fresh airโ€”literally. Itโ€™s perfect for families who love nature and want to capture those candid, unfiltered moments.

  • Scenic backdrops: From golden-hour fields to colorful cityscapes, outdoor shoots offer endless possibilities. Nature just hits differently, doesnโ€™t it?
  • Room to play: Got active kiddos who need to move? Outdoor sessions give them the space to run, jump, and be themselves. Bonus: those action shots are priceless.
  • Dynamic lighting: The sun is natureโ€™s spotlight, and when used right, it can create some truly magical effects. (Donโ€™t worryโ€”I know how to avoid harsh shadows and squinty eyes.)
stylish influenster woman, walks strongly down a manhattan street newar 14th street in SOHO. woman wears a bright yellow two set outfit with dark shades.

The Cons:
Of course, even the great outdoors has its quirks.

  • Weather roulette: The weather doesnโ€™t always play nice. But hey, a cloudy day can make for stunning photos, and if it rains? Weโ€™ll pivot, dance in the rain, (Umbrella photos, anyone?)
  • Unpredictable elements: Bugs, mud, and the occasional โ€œhold on, is that a skunk?โ€ moment can keep things interesting. Iโ€™ll always have a plan to work around Mother Natureโ€™s curveballs.
  • Travel time: Depending on the location, getting everyone to the spot might require a bit more coordination. But trust me, itโ€™s worth it.

mother and daughter portrait based in Tampa Florida, laughing and admiring each other. Mom holds her first born daughter by the waist, wearing a baby blue one sided halter dress, while the daughter with long black curly hair, wears a short white mini dress, with a forest background

So, Whatโ€™s Right for Your Family?

The answer really depends on your goals and what feels right for your familyโ€™s unique dynamic.

  • Choose indoor if: You want a cozy, personal vibe, your home has a special meaning to your family, or you need a controlled environment for younger kids.
  • Choose outdoor if: Youโ€™re looking for vibrant, dynamic photos, you want a variety of natural backdrops, or your kids thrive in open spaces.
curly headed expecting mother to be wearing a. long flowy yellow dress with a big bump, opens her arms to catch her young preschool daughter in all white who is running towards her while holding her favorite  lovey. setting is in the woods with a nature background in the bronx Ny

Why Not Both?

Hereโ€™s a wild idea: Why choose? Iโ€™ve done sessions that start with cozy indoor shots and end with playful outdoor photos. Itโ€™s the best of both worlds and tells a complete story of your familyโ€™s life.

three kids playing in a kitchen, home setting. the 2 oldest boys play while the youngest in a diapers dances in a  Conneticut home

Letโ€™s Make Magic Together

No matter what you choose, Iโ€™m here to guide you every step of the way. My job isnโ€™t just to snap photosโ€”itโ€™s to help you feel confident, relaxed, and genuinely excited about capturing these moments. So, whether weโ€™re hanging out in your living room or chasing the sunset in a park, I promise your photos will be nothing short of unforgettable.

Ready to book your session? Letโ€™s chat and create something amazing together.

New Photography Sessions Available: “The Magic of Now”, A Day In The Life

The Magic of Now: Why Iโ€™m Finally Offering Lifestyle Candid Sessions

You know those moments when your toddlerโ€™s giggle fills the room, or the way your partner looks at you during a quiet family moment? Those tiny, fleeting moments are what I live forโ€”the little slices of life that make everything else fade away. And guess what? Iโ€™m finally offering a photography session designed to capture exactly that. Welcome to “The Magic of Now” sessions.

For years, Iโ€™ve dreamed of creating a space for families to feel seenโ€”for their love, their quirks, their everything. My heart has always been drawn to the emotion behind the lens: the belly laughs, the messy hair, the quiet hugs, and even the occasional tantrum that somehow turns into a giggle-fest. These moments are real, and theyโ€™re beautiful. Thatโ€™s the magic of what I do.

What Makes These Sessions Special?

“The Magic of Now” isnโ€™t about posing or perfection. Itโ€™s about stepping into your world and capturing life as it happens. Iโ€™ll spend a portion of the day with your family, whether itโ€™s in the cozy comfort of your home or your backyard sanctuary. Iโ€™ll be a fly on the wall, quietly snapping away as you go about your dayโ€”playing, laughing, cuddling, and just being. My goal? To freeze those fleeting moments so you can hold onto them forever.

Imagine starting the morning with pancake-making chaos in the kitchen, playing with the kids on the floor, or snuggling on the couch with a book. These are the moments that make up your storyโ€”the kind that donโ€™t need words, just a photograph to bring them rushing back.

How It Works

Iโ€™ll join you for a relaxed 3-4 hours, blending into your familyโ€™s routine. No pressure, no โ€œperfectโ€ poses. Just you, living your beautiful, messy, love-filled life. Iโ€™ll help guide you if needed, but mostly, Iโ€™ll be there to capture the magic as it unfolds naturally.

At the end of our time together, youโ€™ll receive a gallery of images that tell the story of your familyโ€™s unique love. These are photos that will make you laugh, cry, and remember exactly how it felt to be in this moment in time.

Ready to Capture Your Magic?

Iโ€™m now booking “The Magic of Now” sessions in Fairfield and New Haven County, Connecticut. Letโ€™s document your familyโ€™s love in the most authentic way possible. Spots are limited, so donโ€™t waitโ€”letโ€™s make some magic together!

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