Ever wondered what tradition, adorable baby giggles, and a dash of destiny look like? Let me take you behind the scenes of Gemma’s first birthday doljabi. It was a vibrant celebration rooted in Korean culture and bursting with love. Spoiler alert: It involves tiny hands choosing their future career path, squishy baby cheeks, and some of the best food I’ve ever tasted.
In Korean culture, a doljabi is more than just a birthday—it’s a cherished tradition that celebrates a baby’s milestone first year while offering a peek into their future. During this event, various symbolic items are placed before the birthday child. The baby then picks one, and each item hints at their potential path in life: a gavel for a future judge, a paintbrush for an artist, a microphone for a musician, a stethoscope for a doctor, and even thread for longevity. Watching little Gemma reach out with her tiny fingers was the cutest—and possibly most suspenseful—moment of the day, especially since there was a raffle to make it extra fun. And guess what? Little Miss Gemma—with her squishable cheeks and gummy smile—reached straight for the stethoscope. Future doctor in the making? We’ll have to wait and see, but the room erupted in cheers and laughter when she made her pick.
Stephanie and Robert hosted Gemma’s doljabi at The East Norwalk Association Library. The venue was intimate yet lively, filled with family, friends, and the warmth of celebration. Gemma, dressed in a stunning traditional Hanbok, looked like a little princess. Her parents, also dressed in Hanboks, radiated grace and pride as they shared this special day with their loved ones.
Gemma’s at the perfect age where everything is fascinating, and is full of personality. She lit up every time I sang “Wheels on the Bus” to catch her attention.
If you’re planning a special event—whether it’s a doljabi, a birthday, or just a fun family gathering—I’d love to be there to document it. I’m based in Fairfield County, Connecticut, and I also serve the New York Metro Area. Let’s make sure your memories aren’t just lived but beautifully preserved forever.
As a mom and a family photographer, I get it. The idea of planning a family photoshoot can feel as daunting as getting your toddler to eat vegetables willingly (why are they so suspicious of broccoli, anyway?). One of the biggest decisions you’ll face is whether to go for indoor or outdoor photography. Both have their charm, but the right choice depends on your family’s vibe, your goals for the session, and, let’s be honest, how much chaos you’re willing to wrangle that day.
Let’s dive into the pros and cons of each so you can make the best decision for your crew. (Spoiler alert: Either way, you’re in good hands.)
Indoor Photography: Cozy, Controlled, and Climate-Proof
The Pros: Indoor photography is like a warm hug on a rainy day. It’s comfortable, intimate, and perfect for those who don’t want to leave the house (introverts, I see you). It’s also ideal for families with young kids who might get overstimulated outdoors or during colder months when the idea of bundling everyone up sounds less than appealing.-
Weather? What’s that? Rain, snow, or a heatwave? Doesn’t matter. Your indoor session will go off without a hitch. No sweaty foreheads or wind-blown hair to worry about.
Personalized vibes: Want to showcase your family’s personality? Indoor shoots allow you to use your home as the backdrop, making the photos feel extra meaningful. Bonus: If your toddler refuses to part with their favorite blanket or stuffed llama, it can be part of the story.
Controlled environment: Indoor sessions keep distractions to a minimum. No squirrels stealing the show or curious onlookers peeking in on your moment.
The Cons: While indoor photography is amazing, it does come with a few limitations.
Space matters: If your home or indoor location is a little tight, it could limit the variety of shots. But don’t worry—I’m a pro at working with what’s available. (Seriously, I’ve turned the tiniest corners into magazine-worthy backdrops.)
Lighting challenges: Natural light indoors can be tricky, but that’s why I bring my trusty gear. My job is to make you and your family look amazing, no matter the lighting situation.
Outdoor Photography: Natural, Vibrant, and Freeing
The Pros: Outdoor photography is like a breath of fresh air—literally. It’s perfect for families who love nature and want to capture those candid, unfiltered moments.
Scenic backdrops: From golden-hour fields to colorful cityscapes, outdoor shoots offer endless possibilities. Nature just hits differently, doesn’t it?
Room to play: Got active kiddos who need to move? Outdoor sessions give them the space to run, jump, and be themselves. Bonus: those action shots are priceless.
Dynamic lighting: The sun is nature’s spotlight, and when used right, it can create some truly magical effects. (Don’t worry—I know how to avoid harsh shadows and squinty eyes.)
The Cons: Of course, even the great outdoors has its quirks.
Weather roulette: The weather doesn’t always play nice. But hey, a cloudy day can make for stunning photos, and if it rains? We’ll pivot, dance in the rain, (Umbrella photos, anyone?)
Unpredictable elements: Bugs, mud, and the occasional “hold on, is that a skunk?” moment can keep things interesting. I’ll always have a plan to work around Mother Nature’s curveballs.
Travel time: Depending on the location, getting everyone to the spot might require a bit more coordination. But trust me, it’s worth it.
So, What’s Right for Your Family?
The answer really depends on your goals and what feels right for your family’s unique dynamic.
Choose indoor if: You want a cozy, personal vibe, your home has a special meaning to your family, or you need a controlled environment for younger kids.
Choose outdoor if: You’re looking for vibrant, dynamic photos, you want a variety of natural backdrops, or your kids thrive in open spaces.
Why Not Both?
Here’s a wild idea: Why choose? I’ve done sessions that start with cozy indoor shots and end with playful outdoor photos. It’s the best of both worlds and tells a complete story of your family’s life.
Let’s Make Magic Together
No matter what you choose, I’m here to guide you every step of the way. My job isn’t just to snap photos—it’s to help you feel confident, relaxed, and genuinely excited about capturing these moments. So, whether we’re hanging out in your living room or chasing the sunset in a park, I promise your photos will be nothing short of unforgettable.
Ready to book your session? Let’s chat and create something amazing together.
