30 Ways to Make Your Event Photos Look Like Magic”

1. Golden Hour Timing

Plan the event or key moments (like speeches, group photos, or couple portraits) during golden hour, just after sunrise or before sunset. The soft, warm light flatters every skin tone and creates a dreamy, ethereal vibe that enhances the mood of any photograph.

2. Fairy Lights Galore

Drape fairy lights over trees, walls, or even tables. Their warm glow creates a cozy, magical atmosphere, especially for evening events. They also act as great bokeh (blurred light) in the background of photos.

3. Bold Backdrops

Use statement walls, floral arches, or colorful murals as backdrops. They add vibrancy and a polished, intentional look to your photos. Personalize them to match the theme of your event for added impact.

4. Candids Over Poses

Encourage guests to interact naturally. Capture laughter, hugs, and those quiet moments of connection. The best photos often come from people being themselves rather than looking directly at the camera.

5. Props with Personality

Props like funky sunglasses, chalkboards with messages, or themed decor help tell the story of the event. For weddings, kids’ parties, or family reunions, these items add a playful and unique touch to photos.

6. Mix Indoor & Outdoor Shots

If your event spans indoor and outdoor spaces, use both to add variety. Indoor shots can highlight the cozy details, while outdoor shots capture openness and natural light.

7. Bright, Coordinated Outfits

While matching outfits can feel stiff, choosing complementary colors makes photos cohesive without looking overly planned. Bright colors or patterns stand out and add personality.

8. Decor Details

Photograph intricate elements like table centerpieces, floral arrangements, or unique decor pieces. These details add depth to the story and preserve the effort that went into the eventโ€™s aesthetic.

9. Interactive Activities

Events with games, DIY stations, or performances offer action-packed opportunities for great shots. Guests absorbed in activities create dynamic and joyful photos.

10. Confetti Moments

Throwing confetti at a key momentโ€”like the end of a speech or during a toastโ€”creates movement and color. Biodegradable confetti is eco-friendly and photographically stunning.

11. Smoke Bombs

Colorful smoke bombs create an artistic, surreal effect in photos. Use them for dramatic portraits or group shots to add whimsy and visual interest. Safely, of course.

12. Mirror Reflections

Use mirrors creatively to frame guests or decor. Mirrors can reflect light beautifully, create depth, and add a modern, artistic flair to photos.

13. Candles Everywhere

Scatter candles on tables or use candelabras to bring warmth and romance to the scene. For safety, opt for flameless candles if kids are present.

14. Dramatic Drapes

Flowy drapes in bold colors or sheer fabrics can create soft, romantic vibes. Use them on entryways, as photo booth backdrops, or even as decor for outdoor setups.

15. Focus on Laughter

Plan moments that make people genuinely laugh, like a funny toast or a silly group activity. Unscripted laughter translates into radiant, joyful photos.

16. Include the Pets

If your furry friends are part of the family, bring them along! Pets add charm and often steal the spotlight in photos with their natural curiosity and energy.

17. Capture the Prep

Photograph behind-the-scenes moments like setting up decor, getting ready, or candid interactions among family members before guests arrive. These moments tell a fuller story of the event.

18. Rainy Day? Embrace It

Rain doesnโ€™t have to ruin photosโ€”it can enhance them! Umbrellas, puddles, and reflections on wet surfaces can add artistic flair.

19. Neon Signs

Custom neon signs with cool phrases, this way in can provide a modern, vibrant focal point for photos. They’ll look especially striking in nighttime or indoor settings.

20. Overhead Perspectives

Use ladders, drones, or balconies to capture wide shots of the event from above. This perspective highlights the scale and energy of the crowd.

21. Capture Reactions

Focus on people’s expressions during speeches, toasts, or big reveals. Genuine reactions often tell a story that words cannot.

22. Play with Shadows

Look for interesting shadows cast by trees, windows, or decor. Shadows can create dramatic and artistic elements within photos.

23. Monochromatic Moments

Plan a color theme like all white or all jewel tones. Monochrome looks create a visually cohesive and striking aesthetic.

24. Dance Floor Action

Capture the energy of guests letting loose on the dance floor. Motion blur or dramatic lighting adds a sense of movement and fun to these shots.

25. Include Family Heirlooms

Incorporate sentimental items, like a grandparent’s quilt or your mom’s wedding earrings, to add a layer of personal storytelling.

26. Festive Balloons

Oversized balloons, garlands, or ones with confetti inside bring playful, eye-catching elements to photos.

newlyweds in front of sparkler exit at the end of their wedding

27. Sparklers at Night

Hand out sparklers for guests to hold during a nighttime send-off. The warm, glowing light adds magic and energy to photos.

28. Unexpected Angles

Shoot through plants, decor, or doorways to create frames within frames. This adds layers and depth to your photos.

29. Cultural Touches

Highlight traditions, cultural attire, or rituals unique to your family or community. These elements bring deeper meaning and connection to the photos.

30. End on a High Note

Plan a memorable finale, like fireworks, a confetti blast, or a dance circle. These moments create high-energy, joyful photos to close the event gallery beautifully.

Milli Stephania is a lifestyle and candid event and family photographer based in Stratford, CT. She passionately captures bold, vibrant moments for families across Fairfield County and New York City, turning life’s everyday stories into timeless, unforgettable memories.

How Candid Photos Made a Mom Tear Up with Joy

mother changing her newborn in the nursery

Iโ€™ll never forget when I delivered a gallery to a sweet mom, and she messaged me with: โ€œThese made me cry. Iโ€™ve never seen myself like this.โ€ Cue my own little dance in my kitchen, donโ€™t judge. Thatโ€™s the magic of candid photography: seeing the moments you didnโ€™t even know existed, the ones that show the love, the chaos, and the beautiful reality of motherhood.

mother watching while kids play

Moms Are Always Behind the Camera

If youโ€™re a mom, I bet your phone is bursting with photos of your kids: their first steps, their silly faces, their masterpiece crayon drawings on your walls. And letโ€™s not forget the dozens of group shots at family events where everyone looks greatโ€ฆ except, wait, where are you? Oh, right. Youโ€™re the one taking the picture. Moms are like the stealthy ninjas of family photography, always capturing the memories but rarely appearing in them. Itโ€™s almost as if weโ€™re trying to make ourselves invisible.
Um, excuse me!!
Spoiler alert: weโ€™re not.

But hereโ€™s the thing: Moms matter. You were there too. You did the bedtime stories, the epic pancake breakfasts, the dance parties in the living room. And someday, when your kids look back at those moments, theyโ€™ll want to see you there, too, smiling, laughing, and being the heart of their childhood.

Candid Photos: The Ultimate Love Letter to Yourself

Mom holding her baby close with a warm smile while sitting on the living room floor while her toddler dances circles around her.

When I photograph families, I always make it a point to turn the lens on moms. And not just the posed โ€œhey, look over here and smileโ€ kind of shots. Iโ€™m talking about the real, raw, blink-and-youโ€™ll-miss-it moments. Like when your toddler grabs your face for a sloppy kiss or when youโ€™re laughing so hard at your partnerโ€™s dad joke that youโ€™ve got tears streaming down your face. Those are the moments that make you, you.

The beauty of candid photos is that theyโ€™re not about perfection. Itโ€™s not about having your hair perfectly curled or your kids sitting neatly in matching outfits (though props to you if you manage that). Itโ€™s about capturing the love, the chaos, and everything in between. Itโ€™s about giving yourself permission to exist in the frame with messy hair, yoga pants, and whatever mixed match socks you found closest by.

What Will Your Kids Remember?

When your kids grow up and flip through photo albums or scroll through your digital archives, theyโ€™re not going to care about whether you had makeup on or if the kitchen was spotless. Theyโ€™ll care that you were there. Theyโ€™ll care about seeing the way your eyes lit up when you looked at them, the way you held them close, and the way you made their world feel safe and full of love.

Imagine your grown-up daughter showing her own kids a picture of you laughing in the backyard, holding her as a toddler. Sheโ€™ll say, โ€œThis is your grandma. She was always so full of life.โ€ Thatโ€™s the legacy of a candid photo: itโ€™s not just a picture; itโ€™s a memory, a story, a connection that transcends time.

mother and teenage daughter laughing together

Change the Narrative

Moms, this is your gentle nudge, no, your loving shove, to get in the frame. Be part of the memories. Let someone else hold the camera (or better yet, let me do it). Because you deserve to be seen, celebrated, and remembered just as much as everyone else in your family.

So, next time you book a photo session, donโ€™t shy away from the camera. Embrace it. Laugh. Dance. Be unapologetically you. And when you see those photos, I hope youโ€™ll tear up, as well, because youโ€™ll see what everyone else sees: a mom who is bold, beautiful, and full of magic.

mother and teenage daughter together

Grayson’s First Birthday: A Chef’s Dream!

Becoming a parent is one of the most transformative experiences life can throw at you. Itโ€™s full of late-night feedings, endless diaper changes, belly laughs, and the joy of watching your little one grow into their own tiny person. When Elsie reached out to document her son Graysonโ€™s first birthday, she knew she wanted to make it specialโ€”not just for him, but as a way to celebrate an incredible milestone in her own journey of parenthood.

Elsie chose the cutest โ€œchefโ€™s themeโ€ for the session, and I was instantly obsessed! With a miniature apron, a sprinkle of flour, and a rolling pin that looked bigger than Grayson, we were ready to cook up some memories that would last forever. Naturally, I leaned all the way into the theme, gathering every prop a tiny chef might needโ€”whisks, mixing bowls, muffin tinsโ€”you name it. The vibe was all about joy, mess, and embracing the chaos of the toddler years.

Before our session, I worked closely with Elsie to plan the shoot. Once she shared her vision, I created a mood board to bring it to life. Itโ€™s so important to me that every client feels like theyโ€™re part of the creative process. Whether choosing a theme, picking outfits, or deciding on locations, we collaborate to make your session unique and true to your family. When Elsie saw the mood board, she was over the moon and said it was everything sheโ€™d imagined and more.
Hearing that kind of feedback? Thatโ€™s the chefโ€™s kiss for me.

The session itself was so much fun. Grayson was the star of the show, of course. He explored every little thing we set up, from poking at the flour to crawling around like a champion. (Honestly, who knew a crawling chef could be so adorable?) Watching Elsie laugh and play with Grayson, I could feel how much love and joy she pours into being his mom. It was a beautiful reminder that first birthdays arenโ€™t just about celebrating babiesโ€”itโ€™s about celebrating parents, too. Elsie, youโ€™ve made it through an entire year of sleepless nights, new challenges, and countless memories. Thatโ€™s something worth shouting about!

When Elsie received her final images, she couldnโ€™t stop smiling. Seeing her joy made all the planning, organizing, and flour-covered chaos totally worth it. Sessions like this remind me why I love what I do. Capturing these fleeting momentsโ€”the ones that feel small but mean so muchโ€”is what Iโ€™m here for.

So, if youโ€™re a parent wondering whether you should book a session like this, let me be the one to tell you: YES. Celebrate your baby, celebrate your family, and most importantly, celebrate YOU. After all, these moments fly by, and they deserve to be remembered.


Do you have an idea for a theme or milestone youโ€™d like to celebrate? Letโ€™s brainstorm and create something magical together. Reach out, and letโ€™s get planning! ๐Ÿงก

Photographing Connection and Growth at “The Rooted Visionary Experience”

Photographing “The Rooted Visionary Experience” in New York wasnโ€™t just another day behind the cameraโ€”it felt like a family reunion (minus the awkward โ€œWhat are you doing with your life?โ€ questions). Ada Rojas, from “All Things Ada,” the powerhouse behind this event, has been on my radar since 2017 when she hosted her very first vision board workshop (see that post HERE). Back then, it was all about manifesting dreams and gluing magazine cutouts to paper. Fast forward to now, and here we areโ€”on a whole other levelโ€”spiritual growth, ancestor-honoring, and sensory meditation. Talk about a glow-up, right?

From the moment I walked in, the vibe was chefโ€™s kiss. Guests were greeted with an โ€œEnergy Barโ€ that didnโ€™t serve cocktails but instead offered custom aura mists to cleanse and ground yourself. (Who knew a spritz could feel so life-changing?) Then there was the โ€œTea Bar,โ€ complete with blends designed to open your heart and clear your mind. Honestly, it was the kind of wholesome magic that made me want to put down my camera and just sip tea all day.

But the real magic happened during the guided ancestral journey Ada led. Watching a room full of people close their eyes, breathe deeply, and connect with their roots was so moving that even I felt like my camera lens was getting misty. (No, I wasnโ€™t cryingโ€”you were!) The community altar stole the showโ€”decked out with photos of loved ones, cafecito, mamajuana, and fresh flowers. It was beautiful, heartfelt, and so uniquely Ada.

Capturing these momentsโ€”the hugs, the laughter, the quiet moments of reflectionโ€”reminded me why Iโ€™m so obsessed with what I do. Lifeโ€™s not about the perfectly posed photos; itโ€™s about the ones that make you feel something. And this event? It was packed with feeling. From the heartfelt embraces to people just letting go and being themselves, I couldnโ€™t stop snapping away. (Okay, maybe I paused for a quick sip of teaโ€ฆ priorities.)

Seeing Adaโ€™s growth from vision board queen to spiritual guide extraordinaire has been nothing short of inspiring. Her ability to create spaces where people can reflect, connect, and honor themselves and their ancestors? Pure magic. Iโ€™m so proud to have been part of her journey and even prouder to capture these moments for her.

As I packed up my gear (and maybe grabbed another aura mist for the road), I couldnโ€™t help but feel a deep sense of gratitude. This wasnโ€™t just a jobโ€”it was a reminder of why I do what I do. Being entrusted to capture the essence of “The Rooted Visionary Experience” was like going through a personal journey with Ada. Ada, youโ€™re a superstar. Thank you for trusting me to document your incredible vision. Iโ€™m already counting down to the next chapter of your journey.