Why I Gently โ€œPeer Pressureโ€ Moms to Get in the Photo | “The Magic of Now”

Thereโ€™s something sacred about those first few days after a baby is born.

The wrinkly toes.
The flaky skin.
The way their entire body fits into the crook of your arm.

This session was originally meant to be a Fresh 48, the kind where I meet you at the hospital and document your baby within the first 48 hours of life.

But instead?

We waited.

And it was absolutely the right decision.

Eliana initially reached out wanting to document her baby girl as soon as she arrived. But as the days unfolded, they decided to give themselves more time.
Sometimes waiting gives you more time settle into a new rhythm, physically recover, and just get more sleep! lol

When I arrived at their home in Queens, NY, baby Emilia was bright-eyed, alert, and still tiny, so perfect.

โ€œIโ€™m Not a Camera Personโ€

Now letโ€™s talk about mom for a second.

Eliana told me from the beginning:
โ€œI just want photos of the baby. Iโ€™m not a camera person.โ€

She even shared that when she got engaged, her fiancรฉ hired a photographer, and she was quickly over posing.

And I told her, very gentlyโ€ฆ

โ€œIโ€™m going to peer pressure you in the nicest way possible.โ€

Because hereโ€™s the truth:

The fresh baby smell fades.
The tiny toes turn into little feet that one day smell like cheese.
The newborn scrunch disappears.
The way they fit perfectly on your chest changes almost overnight.

This is their first baby. It only happens once.

And I always tell my moms who don’t want to get in front of the camera:
If you never want to look at the photos again, you donโ€™t have to.
But at least theyโ€™ll exist.

She trusted me, and it was worth it.
By the end of the session, Eliana was relaxed. She laughed, she held her baby without worrying about angles. And when she saw the images, she thanked me over and over. She even left the sweetest review, the kind that makes you want to hug your laptop.

I will always encourage moms to get in the frame. Because one day, your baby will look for you in the photos. And they should find you, holding them, loving them, existing in their story.


The best part?
Hearing how she felt after seeing the images.


If youโ€™re in New York or Connecticut and thinking about documenting your growing family, whether itโ€™s a Fresh 48, a two-month-old, or a toddler who wonโ€™t sit still, I promise weโ€™ll do it in a way that feels easy, natural, and true to you.

You donโ€™t have to be a โ€œcamera person.โ€

You just have to be present.

And Iโ€™ll take care of the rest.

Behind the Scenes of Jelissaโ€™s Quinceaรฑera, A Night Rooted in Tradition, Love, and Big Feelings

Quinceaรฑera dressed in a red ball gown during her celebration at a VFW hall in Stratford, Connecticut, surrounded by elegant decor and traditional seating as she celebrates her fifteenth birthday, photographed in a documentary style to capture an authentic milestone event

A Quinceaรฑera Is Not Just a Party, Itโ€™s a Moment in Time

There are events you photograph, and then there are events you feel. Jelissaโ€™s quinceaรฑera was absolutely the second kind.

For months leading up to her big day, I worked closely with her mom, Nancy, brainstorming details, timelines, and little moments that would matter long after the balloons came down. That behind the scenes planning is one of my favorite parts of event photography, because when the night finally arrives, everyone gets to be present, and I get to quietly make sure nothing meaningful slips by unnoticed.

The day of the event started the same way many of my long event days do, kids dropped off with a trusted babysitter, a deep breath, cameras charged, and a mental checklist running in my head. Showtime.

I arrived at their home at 3:30 pm to photograph Jelissa getting ready for her quinceaรฑera, and this part always feels extra special. Hair being curled, dresses carefully stepped into, nervous excitement mixed with proud smiles, itโ€™s the calm before the celebration.

In Latino and Hispanic culture, a quinceaรฑera marks the transition from childhood into young womanhood. Itโ€™s symbolic, emotional, and layered with tradition. Watching that unfold in real time, especially inside a familyโ€™s home, is exactly why documentary-style photography matters. These moments donโ€™t repeat themselves.

The celebration continued at the VFW in Stratford, Connecticut, transformed into a beautiful space centered around a traditional throne-style seating area that immediately told you, tonight is about her.

Every detail felt intentional, from the decor to the pacing of the evening. As a Connecticut and New York event candid documentary photographer, Iโ€™m always watching how people move through a space, where the emotions gather, and when to step back and let moments breathe.

The Traditions That Made Everyone Emotional

Some parts of the night hit straight in the heart, and yes, I absolutely teared up behind my camera.

Here are a few moments that stood out most

โ€ข The lighting of the 15 candles, each dedicated to someone meaningful in Jelissaโ€™s life
โ€ข The changing of the shoes, when her dad swapped her sneakers for high heels, a classic quinceaรฑera tradition that never fails to get people emotional
โ€ข The reflection moment, where Jelissa honored her younger self through her niece, a reminder of how fast time moves and how deeply we carry our inner child
โ€ข A candle dedicated to the vendors, where I had the privilege of lighting one on our behalf, an unexpected and incredibly touching gesture
Watching Jelissa honor her younger self hit especially close to home for me. I never had a quinceaรฑera of my own. My mom bought me the most beautiful lavender and pink gown, itโ€™s still sitting in her closet to this day. But the party never happened. Life moved fast, priorities shifted, and that moment quietly passed.

Standing there, camera in hand, watching a young girl be celebrated so intentionally, I couldnโ€™t help but thinkโ€ฆ maybe one day, one of my daughters will get to wear that dress. Maybe that story will come full circle in its own way.

Thatโ€™s the thing about nights like these. Theyโ€™re not just about one person. They ripple through generations. They remind us of what we didnโ€™t have, what we hope to give, and how deeply meaningful it is to pause and say, you matter, this moment matters.

Just when emotions settled, a dancing robot entered the room and instantly turned the energy all the way up. The dance floor filled, laughter took over, and the night shifted into full celebration mode.

This balance, emotional depth and pure fun, is what makes events like this so powerful to document.

Why I Photograph Events This Way

People often ask, Why candid documentary photography for events like a quinceaรฑera?

Because posed photos tell you what happened.
Candid photos remind you how it felt.

My goal is always to create images that let you relive the night exactly as it unfolded, the proud glances, the tight hugs, the joyful chaos, the quiet tears you didnโ€™t realize anyone saw.


Planning, Trust, and Letting Go

Nancy trusted me not just to show up with a camera, but to understand the importance of this milestone. That trust is everything. When families feel supported, the night flows more smoothly, the emotions are real, and the photos become truly meaningful.

Thatโ€™s the experience I aim to give every family I work with.

Thinking About Your Own Event?

Whether youโ€™re planning a quinceaรฑera, sweet sixteen, milestone birthday, or cultural celebration, you deserve photos that honor the story, not rush it.

Iโ€™m based in Connecticut and proudly offer my services throughout Fairfield County and New Haven County, as well as the New York Metro Area. If youโ€™re looking for a NY and Connecticut portrait and event candid documentary photographer who loves to boldly capture special events, Iโ€™d love to connect.

Reach out, letโ€™s talk details, and letโ€™s document your story as it unfolds.

Capture Your Event’s True Essence

stratford conneticut main street festival, block party where vendors come together to build community and network with patreons and locals. Photo of magician laughing while entertain a teen and dad in the festival

If thereโ€™s one thing I know for sure, itโ€™s this, life is full of moments worth remembering, not just the big milestones, but the hugs, the quick laughs, the chaos, the tiny in-between gestures that make your family and your celebrations yours. Thatโ€™s exactly what Iโ€™m there to capture.

backyard bbq of a toddler and a teen having fun together alongside a party game in stratford ct

Whether you’re throwing a birthday party, hosting a baby shower, celebrating a baptism, or planning a sweet sixteen, my goal is simple, I want you to actually enjoy your event and trust that the memories are being documented with intention, heart, and a whole lot of candids.

And just so you know, your photos will look like your day felt, bold, colorful, lively, and full of energy, never washed out or drab. Iโ€™m all about true color, real emotion, and photos that feel alive.

family member admiring aonther family member, taking pictures of her dad on her cellphone

1. I Photograph Your Event as It Naturally Unfolds

Iโ€™m not the photographer who yells at your guests to pose every five seconds.
Iโ€™m the one following the story, weaving through the room, catching the laughter, the tears, the surprise moments, the details you spent time choosing.

Youโ€™ll get a mix of
โ€ข traditional group photos,
โ€ข beautiful candids,
โ€ขunexpected moments you didnโ€™t even realize were happening around you.

event party , birthday celebration of anmolder woman dancing on the dance floor surrounded by loviong family members having fun and celebrating her on brooklyn NY

Think of me as a friendly extra guestโ€ฆ who just happens to have a camera and a love for storytelling. And if the vibe is right, yes, I absolutely will jump on the dance floor with my camera in hand. Listen, if Abuela is breaking it down, Iโ€™m not missing that.

doljabi details of birthday table including cake in norwalk ct

2. I Capture the Details You Worked Hard On

The decorations, the table setups, the cake, the florals, the outfit details, the balloons, and every little thoughtful touch you added, I document them all.

Youโ€™ll get photos that bring your vision to life, Pinterest-board worthy, without pausing the celebration even once.

details of baptism party in new york, ny . garden party event photography with beautiful flower cage

3. Your Guests Will Actually Feel Comfortable

My vibe is relaxed, fun, friendly, and very go-with-the-flow.
Kids love me, parents relax around me, and guests feel at ease, allowing them to be themselves.

No stiff poses. No awkward angles.
Just people being themselves.

three friends posing for the camera at an event in washington heights for spirutal awakening .

4. I Take Care of the Timeline, You Enjoy Your Day

From the moment I arrive, I’m observing everything: the flow of the event, the emotional moments, the people who matter to you most, and the lighting as it shifts through the room.

You never have to chase me down or remind me to get a shot โ€” if anything, I’m already two steps ahead.

party goers having fun at the photo booth event photography in upstate NY

5. You Get a Sneak Peek Fast

Because I know the excitement is real.
Within a short time after your event, youโ€™ll get a preview of the best highlights so you can relive the magic and share with loved ones.

The full gallery follows in an organized, easy-to-navigate online format.
No stress, no guessing, just your memories waiting for you.

doljabi event, where mother in law hugs her son in law, at event celebrating thier first born. baby is celevrating a year and grandmother has helped  prepare for the family . in conneticut fairfield county

6. Your Memories Are Safe With Me

These moments matter, and they canโ€™t be recreated.
Your images are backed up, secured, and delivered in high resolution so you can print, share, and treasure them forever.

peruvian dancers at a festival showcase their traditional dance for party and festival atendees in their traditional dress in paradise green in stratford CT

7. Iโ€™m Here to Celebrate With You

This isnโ€™t โ€œjust another eventโ€ โ€” itโ€™s a chapter in your family’s story.
I want you to feel supported, understood, and documented in a way that feels real. I capture the love, the laughter, the chaos, the beauty, and everything in between. Itโ€™s an honor to be invited into that space.

If you’re looking for photography thatโ€™s alive, bold, colorful, heartfelt, and full of personality, Iโ€™m your girl.

Photo Journal: Latin Festival- Stratford Knows How To Party

Stratford, CT, you really said “vamos a bailar“, and wow, you really meant it!

Yesterday I finally experienced the Latin Festival everyone keeps raving aboutโ€”and wow, you werenโ€™t exaggerating. The Stratford Hispanic Heritage Committee threw down for their 20th Anniversary Latin Music Festival, and let me tell you, this town knows how to celebrate. With Hispanic Heritage Month (Sept 15โ€“Oct 25) officially underway, the timing couldnโ€™t have been better.

Yesterday was my very first time attending, and let me just sayโ€ฆ I get it now. I came prepared like a pro festival-goer: packed chairs, snacks, and picked the perfect shady spot under a tree. (Did I need snacks? Nope. With all those food vendors, I shouldโ€™ve come hungry.)

From the first performance, it was pure magicโ€”local dance schools absolutely brought the energy, and the crowd was eating it up. But the Peruvian dancers? They stole the whole show. The colors of their traditional outfits were so vibrant they could have powered the stage lights themselves. And the way they hyped up the crowd? Unreal. Stratford was basically one big dance floor for a minute.

Of course, I couldnโ€™t resist snapping photos. It wasnโ€™t officialโ€”just me, my camera, and a soft spot for families having a blast. Iโ€™ve already shared the gallery with Stratford residents so they can find their own smiling faces, just like I did back in June with the Stratford Festival. (You can read that blog post here, and find the gallery here) Thereโ€™s nothing better than capturing real, unscripted joy.

After a year and a half of living here, Iโ€™m still blown away by how much community Stratford has. People show up for each other, they celebrate loudly, and they make you feel like youโ€™re part of something bigger. My heart is full, and you can bet Iโ€™ll be back next year, front row, camera in hand, dancing, and loving every second.

Go on, click through the gallery and see if you can find your dance moves or your abuelaโ€™s best twirl. ๐Ÿ˜‰ Relive the fun right here!โ€