Photographing Connection and Growth at “The Rooted Visionary Experience”

Photographing “The Rooted Visionary Experience” in New York wasnโ€™t just another day behind the cameraโ€”it felt like a family reunion (minus the awkward โ€œWhat are you doing with your life?โ€ questions). Ada Rojas, from “All Things Ada,” the powerhouse behind this event, has been on my radar since 2017 when she hosted her very first vision board workshop (see that post HERE). Back then, it was all about manifesting dreams and gluing magazine cutouts to paper. Fast forward to now, and here we areโ€”on a whole other levelโ€”spiritual growth, ancestor-honoring, and sensory meditation. Talk about a glow-up, right?

From the moment I walked in, the vibe was chefโ€™s kiss. Guests were greeted with an โ€œEnergy Barโ€ that didnโ€™t serve cocktails but instead offered custom aura mists to cleanse and ground yourself. (Who knew a spritz could feel so life-changing?) Then there was the โ€œTea Bar,โ€ complete with blends designed to open your heart and clear your mind. Honestly, it was the kind of wholesome magic that made me want to put down my camera and just sip tea all day.

But the real magic happened during the guided ancestral journey Ada led. Watching a room full of people close their eyes, breathe deeply, and connect with their roots was so moving that even I felt like my camera lens was getting misty. (No, I wasnโ€™t cryingโ€”you were!) The community altar stole the showโ€”decked out with photos of loved ones, cafecito, mamajuana, and fresh flowers. It was beautiful, heartfelt, and so uniquely Ada.

Capturing these momentsโ€”the hugs, the laughter, the quiet moments of reflectionโ€”reminded me why Iโ€™m so obsessed with what I do. Lifeโ€™s not about the perfectly posed photos; itโ€™s about the ones that make you feel something. And this event? It was packed with feeling. From the heartfelt embraces to people just letting go and being themselves, I couldnโ€™t stop snapping away. (Okay, maybe I paused for a quick sip of teaโ€ฆ priorities.)

Seeing Adaโ€™s growth from vision board queen to spiritual guide extraordinaire has been nothing short of inspiring. Her ability to create spaces where people can reflect, connect, and honor themselves and their ancestors? Pure magic. Iโ€™m so proud to have been part of her journey and even prouder to capture these moments for her.

As I packed up my gear (and maybe grabbed another aura mist for the road), I couldnโ€™t help but feel a deep sense of gratitude. This wasnโ€™t just a jobโ€”it was a reminder of why I do what I do. Being entrusted to capture the essence of “The Rooted Visionary Experience” was like going through a personal journey with Ada. Ada, youโ€™re a superstar. Thank you for trusting me to document your incredible vision. Iโ€™m already counting down to the next chapter of your journey.

Big News: Milli Stephania Photo is Expanding to Fairfield County, Connecticut!

If you’ve been following along with Milli Stephania Photo, you already know Iโ€™m all about capturing lifeโ€™s beautiful, messy, and magical moments. Well, buckle up, I have so much to share with you! Life has been full of exciting changes latelyโ€”a new baby has joined the team, weโ€™ve moved to beautiful Connecticut, and we just bought a new home! Itโ€™s been a whirlwind, but through it all, Iโ€™m beyond excited to announce that Iโ€™m now offering my photography services in both New York and Connecticut.
If weโ€™ve worked together before, I want to thank you for your continued support. And if we havenโ€™t yet, I would love the chance to meet you and help capture your special moments! Whether youโ€™re in New York or Connecticut, Iโ€™m thrilled to be able to offer more flexibility in scheduling and location to make it easier for you.
And before my NYC clients start panicking, donโ€™t worryโ€”Iโ€™m still here for you, too. Letโ€™s dive into the details!

Why the Move? New Beginnings in Connecticut

Life has been a whirlwind lately. As a new mom of twoโ€”yes, two! (cue the coffee and chaos)โ€”my family and I recently made the leap to Stratford, Connecticut. New home, new vibes, and a fresh opportunity to expand my business to a whole new area. Fairfield County, with its gorgeous parks, coastal charm, and bustling communities, feels like the perfect place to bring my candid, documentary-style photography to even more amazing families and events.

But hereโ€™s the kicker: Iโ€™m not leaving my NYC roots behind. As your go-to NY and CT portrait and event documentary photographer, Iโ€™m keeping one foot firmly planted in the New York Metro Area. So, whether youโ€™re in Brooklyn or Bridgeport, Iโ€™ve got you covered.

What Services Do I Offer?

My heart is in candid lifestyle photography, capturing those real, unscripted moments that tell your familyโ€™s unique story. But I also offer a variety of services to celebrate all of lifeโ€™s milestones. all you have to do is bring the moments, and Iโ€™ll bring the magic. Hereโ€™s a quick snapshot of what Iโ€™m all about:

  • Family Photography: From giggly toddlers to sassy teens, Iโ€™ll document your crewโ€™s unique dynamic.
  • Event Photography: Baby showers, birthday parties, baptisms, and sweet sixteensโ€”letโ€™s make those memories unforgettable.
  • Outdoor Sessions: Fairfieldโ€™s scenic backdrops? Yes, please.
  • Travel Sessions: Dreaming of a shoot beyond NY and CT? Letโ€™s chatโ€”Iโ€™m always up for an adventure.

Kid-Friendly? Oh, Absolutely.

As a mom of two wild and wonderful kiddos, I get it. I understand the chaos, the tantrums, and the moments of pure joy that make it all worth it. Thatโ€™s why I pride myself on being super kid-friendly. You donโ€™t have to stress about getting your little ones to โ€œsit stillโ€ for a pictureโ€”Iโ€™m here to capture the real stuff: the giggles, the hugs, and even the occasional cookie-bribe negotiations.

A Little Story: My First Fairfield Session

Let me set the scene: a sunny afternoon at a Fairfield County park, with a family of four which included the silliest fresh new double digit kid. He’s too cool to be doing cute poses… embrace it! Let him go absolute ham, maybe he can show us the newest Tik Tok dance! The parents? Beaming. As we wandered through the trails, snapping candid moments, I realized just how special it is to capture the essence of a family in a new setting and embracing . This is why I do what I do.

Why Choose Milli Stephania Photo?

Hereโ€™s the deal: When you book with me, youโ€™re not just getting a photographer. Youโ€™re getting a memory hoarder who sees the beauty in the everyday. Iโ€™ll make sure you feel at ease, have a laugh, and maybe even forget thereโ€™s a camera involved. My style is bold, vibrant, and true to color because I believe lifeโ€™s moments deserve to be remembered just as they are.

FAQs: Letโ€™s Clear Things Up

Are you still taking clients in NYC? Absolutely! NYC clients, youโ€™re my OGs, and Iโ€™m not going anywhere.

Are you open to traveling outside of NY and CT? Yes! If youโ€™ve got a dream location in mind, letโ€™s make it happen. Just fill out my contact form, and weโ€™ll chat.

Are you kid-friendly? One hundred percent. I specialize in documenting families and their journeys as candidly as possibleโ€”snacks, tantrums, and all.

Letโ€™s Capture Your Moments

Iโ€™m so grateful for this new chapter and all the possibilities ahead. I canโ€™t wait to see what the future holds and, most importantly, to continue capturing the memories that matter most to you. Whether you’re a long-time client or someone new, Iโ€™m here to help you celebrate lifeโ€™s big (and little) moments. Whether youโ€™re in Connecticut or New York, Iโ€™m ready to turn your memories into art. Reach out today to book your session, and letโ€™s create something unforgettable. Iโ€™m so grateful for this new chapter and all the possibilities ahead. I canโ€™t wait to see what the future holds and, most importantly, to continue capturing the memories that matter most to you. Whether you’re a long-time client or someone new, Iโ€™m here to help you celebrate lifeโ€™s big (and little) moments.

Contact Me Now to get startedโ€”Fairfield County, Iโ€™m looking at you!

Family, Fun and a Little Dirt: Capturing Field Day Magic

โ€œThese Field Day photos capture the energy, laughter, and unforgettable moments of a family tradition filled with games like tug-of-war, sack races, and wheelbarrow races. From candid smiles to action-packed shots, these images showcase the beauty of authentic, unposed photography. Perfect for celebrating family, fun, and lifeโ€™s best memories.

Young black girls having fun at the park playing tug of war with cousins.

Every year, my dear friend (letโ€™s call her the queen of fun) throws an epic โ€œField Dayโ€โ€”and I mean epic. Imagine a mashup of your family reunion, summer camp, and the Olympics, but with more laughter and slightly less coordination. This isnโ€™t just a casual picnic with sandwiches and polite conversation. Oh no. This is tug-of-war, three-legged, and wheelbarrow races where the participants might not have their balance, but they sure have their dignityโ€ฆ well, most of it.

When she asked me to photograph the event, I jumped at the chance. First, Iโ€™d do anything for her because she’s my friend. Second, because events like these are my jam. Something about capturing people in their elementโ€”sweaty, laughing, mid-fall, or mid-victory lapโ€”makes the photos feel alive. Itโ€™s the magic of real moments, where no oneโ€™s saying, โ€œOkay, now tilt your chin slightly to the left.โ€

Field Day is the perfect reminder that not every photo session has to be cookie-cutter or full of posed smiles and perfectly coordinated outfits (although, shoutout to anyone who managed to wear matching team shirts this yearโ€”youโ€™re the real MVPs). The beauty is in the chaos, in the moments that make you snort-laugh when you see them later. Like that one uncle who gave it his all in the sack race and wiped out so spectacularly that his glasses flew offโ€ฆ but hey, he stuck the landing with a smile. Or the spur of the moment rap battle.

Thatโ€™s the thing about life: itโ€™s messy, funny, and sometimes downright ridiculous. And when you look back at the photos years from now, those are the moments youโ€™ll treasure. Not the stiff poses, but the candid laughs, the sweat-soaked hugs, the competitive streaks that turned your calm cousin into a sprinting blur.

Photographing Field Day was a masterclass in why I love what I do. Itโ€™s not about creating a perfect momentโ€”itโ€™s about recognizing that the moments weโ€™re already living are perfect in their imperfection. Itโ€™s the kid double-fisting popsicles, the aunt who came out of retirement to dominate musical chairs, and the look on everyoneโ€™s faces when they finally sat down to eat after hours of friendly but ferocious competition.

So, if youโ€™re thinking about capturing your own family traditions, let me just say this: Donโ€™t stress about the poses. Donโ€™t worry about everyone looking โ€œjust right.โ€ The best photos come from simply being yourselves. And if that involves a little dirt, sweat, and your team breaking into a victory chantโ€ฆ even better.

โ€œThese Field Day photos capture the energy, laughter, and unforgettable moments of a family tradition filled with games like tug-of-war, sack races, and wheelbarrow races. From candid smiles to action-packed shots, these images showcase the beauty of authentic, unposed photography. Perfect for celebrating family, fun, and lifeโ€™s best memories.

elder cousin surrounded by younger girl. cousins, generational growth of beautiful black girls

Life isnโ€™t staged, so why should your photos be?

And to my friend: thank you for letting me document the joy, the hilarity, and the slightly chaotic brilliance of Field Day. Iโ€™m already sharpening my camera skills for next yearโ€”because I know itโ€™ll be bigger, better, and possibly include water balloons. Just saying.

Indoor VS Outdoor Photography: What’s Best For Your Family?

two preschool toddler girls playing princesses while wearing crowns and Princes dresses at home in a playroom covered with toys, stuffede animals like paw patrol charactersm. marshall, skye, and chase pup, with a play tent in the background. Girls are laughing and running around in a circle.

As a mom and a family photographer, I get it. The idea of planning a family photoshoot can feel as daunting as getting your toddler to eat vegetables willingly (why are they so suspicious of broccoli, anyway?). One of the biggest decisions youโ€™ll face is whether to go for indoor or outdoor photography. Both have their charm, but the right choice depends on your familyโ€™s vibe, your goals for the session, and, letโ€™s be honest, how much chaos youโ€™re willing to wrangle that day.

Letโ€™s dive into the pros and cons of each so you can make the best decision for your crew. (Spoiler alert: Either way, youโ€™re in good hands.)


Indoor Photography: Cozy, Controlled, and Climate-Proof

maternity photo of a woman who is expecting sitting on the side of her couch, while her dog also poses for thecamera. the background is dark and modern with a stylish, lamp, pillow and burnt orange throw for a stylish look.

The Pros:
Indoor photography is like a warm hug on a rainy day. Itโ€™s comfortable, intimate, and perfect for those who donโ€™t want to leave the house (introverts, I see you). Itโ€™s also ideal for families with young kids who might get overstimulated outdoors or during colder months when the idea of bundling everyone up sounds less than appealing.-

  • Weather? Whatโ€™s that? Rain, snow, or a heatwave? Doesnโ€™t matter. Your indoor session will go off without a hitch. No sweaty foreheads or wind-blown hair to worry about.
  • Personalized vibes: Want to showcase your familyโ€™s personality? Indoor shoots allow you to use your home as the backdrop, making the photos feel extra meaningful. Bonus: If your toddler refuses to part with their favorite blanket or stuffed llama, it can be part of the story.
  • Controlled environment: Indoor sessions keep distractions to a minimum. No squirrels stealing the show or curious onlookers peeking in on your moment.
3 girls in a photo, one preschoiol toddler lays in bed drinking her chocoloate milk, while the older girl, a cousion or big sister, feeds the youngest baby her milk. all girls are in pajamas, and are in a girly bedroom with a pink purple sky colored bed sheets.

The Cons:
While indoor photography is amazing, it does come with a few limitations.

  • Space matters: If your home or indoor location is a little tight, it could limit the variety of shots. But donโ€™t worryโ€”Iโ€™m a pro at working with whatโ€™s available. (Seriously, Iโ€™ve turned the tiniest corners into magazine-worthy backdrops.)
  • Lighting challenges: Natural light indoors can be tricky, but thatโ€™s why I bring my trusty gear. My job is to make you and your family look amazing, no matter the lighting situation.

Outdoor Photography: Natural, Vibrant, and Freeing

newly wed couple in Manhattan, New York, sitting by bethesda fountain in central park, kissing, while the mom is expecting holding her belly in a baby blue dress.

The Pros:
Outdoor photography is like a breath of fresh airโ€”literally. Itโ€™s perfect for families who love nature and want to capture those candid, unfiltered moments.

  • Scenic backdrops: From golden-hour fields to colorful cityscapes, outdoor shoots offer endless possibilities. Nature just hits differently, doesnโ€™t it?
  • Room to play: Got active kiddos who need to move? Outdoor sessions give them the space to run, jump, and be themselves. Bonus: those action shots are priceless.
  • Dynamic lighting: The sun is natureโ€™s spotlight, and when used right, it can create some truly magical effects. (Donโ€™t worryโ€”I know how to avoid harsh shadows and squinty eyes.)
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The Cons:
Of course, even the great outdoors has its quirks.

  • Weather roulette: The weather doesnโ€™t always play nice. But hey, a cloudy day can make for stunning photos, and if it rains? Weโ€™ll pivot, dance in the rain, (Umbrella photos, anyone?)
  • Unpredictable elements: Bugs, mud, and the occasional โ€œhold on, is that a skunk?โ€ moment can keep things interesting. Iโ€™ll always have a plan to work around Mother Natureโ€™s curveballs.
  • Travel time: Depending on the location, getting everyone to the spot might require a bit more coordination. But trust me, itโ€™s worth it.

mother and daughter portrait based in Tampa Florida, laughing and admiring each other. Mom holds her first born daughter by the waist, wearing a baby blue one sided halter dress, while the daughter with long black curly hair, wears a short white mini dress, with a forest background

So, Whatโ€™s Right for Your Family?

The answer really depends on your goals and what feels right for your familyโ€™s unique dynamic.

  • Choose indoor if: You want a cozy, personal vibe, your home has a special meaning to your family, or you need a controlled environment for younger kids.
  • Choose outdoor if: Youโ€™re looking for vibrant, dynamic photos, you want a variety of natural backdrops, or your kids thrive in open spaces.
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Why Not Both?

Hereโ€™s a wild idea: Why choose? Iโ€™ve done sessions that start with cozy indoor shots and end with playful outdoor photos. Itโ€™s the best of both worlds and tells a complete story of your familyโ€™s life.

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Letโ€™s Make Magic Together

No matter what you choose, Iโ€™m here to guide you every step of the way. My job isnโ€™t just to snap photosโ€”itโ€™s to help you feel confident, relaxed, and genuinely excited about capturing these moments. So, whether weโ€™re hanging out in your living room or chasing the sunset in a park, I promise your photos will be nothing short of unforgettable.

Ready to book your session? Letโ€™s chat and create something amazing together.