Make a Love Plan by Cosmopolitan Magazine

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Recently I read somewhere, (Okay in Cosmo to be exact) this cute little excerpt by Gabrielle Bernstein, a New York times Best Seller, Life Coach and the author of the new book, Miracles Now; that made me look at things a little different, and just in time for the red and pink holiday. I hope you guys enjoy, as much as I did.

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Get clear on who you want to be in a relationship. Make a list of the things you want to bring to the relationship—do you want to be honest and caring or maybe sexy and fun? Too often we think about what we want the other person to be but don’t think about ourselves. You’ll get back what you put out there.

Treat your romance like a friend and your friends like a romance.  Release pressure from a romantic relationship by acting like you would with a friend. You’ll be more authentic and relaxed. And prioritizing friendships by making dates and putting in effort also takes the pressure off the romance by making you less emotionally needy.

Leave a good-energy imprint. Measure the success of your date by how much fun you have, not by how cool or hot you were. When you have a great time, the other person feels that, which creates a positive-energy imprint.

Forgive your past relationships. If you’re carrying resentment from your last relationship, it will get re-purposed in your current one. Letting go of those past dramas will allow you to get rid of your baggage. Forgive your exes to give your current or future boyfriend a chance.

I don’t know about you, but I’m ready to call some girlfriends, set up some dates, make new memories and finally relax. I have so much going on in my life right now, and Q is a great factor in it. We are not perfect and we both try our best to always become better people. In our relationship or out of it. I want to start having dates with him, where we don’t stay at home watching Netflix all the time (as much as I loooove it) I want some action, let’s climb something, experience new things. Laugh some more, a lot….

I need to make time for it all.

Plus, I really need to start painting….but that’s another story!

Pio Pio

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Halloween is getting closer and I’m so excited. I’ve honestly visited so many websites and gone into many Halloween shops, and yet I can’t find anything I truly want to be.

Not only are the costumes made out of horrible material, which makes them look cheap. they’re expensive! How backwards is that? Not to mention how slutty everything seems to look when it comes to the women’s department. No thank you.

(which this paragraph just reminded me of a new post I should make, but I’ll separate the two, so the next one you”ll see.)

Well, back to the topic at hand.

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Look at Q in that Frankenstein mask, haha!

Can we talk about that pose!? 

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I decided to treat my two loves, Mish and Q to dinner and we headed to Pio Pio on the West side.

After a failed attempt to head to an artshow, Q and I showed up to, which I was personally invited to might I add, and there was no notice of it being cancelled.  We showed up and there was some kind of work displayed, but honestly, there was only like 5 pieces up, in a very low ceiling basement and a crying baby in a corner.

I was not impressed, and though there was a nice soft jazz band playing live, Q was into the vibe, he said it was soul full, and felt at ease.

I could relate, but since I was already prepared to be in an “art mood vibe” I got cranky fast.4

Since that was a bust we headed for dinner. Pio Pio it was. A nice peruvian dinner. Since the wait time was about 30 minutes we decided to get some icecream across the street. I seriously only stopped bc they were playing some gangsta music and I was hype. Haha. The things that get me excited I swear. 5 The food was good and the jug of sangria was too tiny. But it was a good romantic haha dinner. Check out the art piece that was hanging up at the restaurant of the virgin mary nursing jesus. Pretty cool. And that frida kahlo piece I actually saw while we were walking back to misha’s. It was done by chalk! 6

I think im gonna start taking more random pictures. I already carry my camera with me everywhere. Time to use it.
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Ambushed by Frank

The bestfriend’s dog, Frank decided to pounce on me and show me some love.